When words aren’t enough in a long-distance relationship.

Give your partner something real to
hold — a pin that grounds their worries
and reminds them they’re loved.

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It’s not just a cute gift
It’s a grounding anchor in your partner’s hardest moments

Holding something from someone you love activates the brain’s emotional safety system,
helping regulate anxiety and ease distress.

Polyvagal Theory, attachment science, and real couples in
long-distance relationships.

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Here’s how each one helps when love gets hard from afar.

Why it works?

We created these pins to soothe long-distance anxiety and
turn your love into something they can hold.

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Grounds their anxiety

Helps regulate overthinking when distance feels overwhelming

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Reinforces your love

A small, physical
reminder of your commitment—even in the quiet moments.

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Eases your mental load

Lifts the pressure of constant reassurance, so you both feel lighter

Why it works?

We created these pins to soothe
long-distance anxiety and turn your
love into something they can hold.

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Roll Icon

Grounds their anxiety

Helps regulate
overthinking when
distance feels overwhelming

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Heart Icon

Reinforces your love

A small, physical
reminder of your
commitment—even in
the quiet moments.

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Person Icon

Eases your mental load

Lifts the pressure of
constant reassurance,
so you both feel lighter

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How to Send One?

1

Choose
Your Pin

Each message says
something different—pick the
one(s) that say it best

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2

Add your note
(optional)

We’ll include your words
inside the package—
handwritten and personal

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3

We wrap and ship
with care

Each pin is hand-wrapped
like a private message—
meant only for them

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How to Send One?

1

Choose
Your Pin

Each message says
something different—pick the
one(s) that say it best

2

Add your note
(optional)

We’ll include your words
inside the package—
handwritten and personal

3

We wrap and ship
with care

Each pin is hand-
wrapped like a private
message—meant only for
them

Why We Made These Pins?

I’ve been in a long-distance relationship for 7 years, and I know how hard it gets.
Texts couldn’t calm my partner’s anxiety — I needed a way to make love feel real across the distance.
These pins exist for those moments. When presence is missing, and silence feels too heavy.
If you’re here, you’re trying to love someone well — and that means everything.
Salman Badshah, Co-Founder Thru Distance

Still wondering how to ease the distance?

LET THE PIN DO THE TALKING